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A written journey into the taboo.
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How EMDR Can Save Your Relationship
If you and your partner find yourselves stuck in the same arguments, feeling triggered by small things, or shutting down before you even know why—you’re not alone. Many couples struggle with unresolved emotional wounds that show up in their relationships, even when...
What Is This Stuck Feeling in Your Relationship Trying to Tell You?
Feeling stuck in a relationship can be unsettling. For some, the first instinct may be to look elsewhere, comparing your relationship to others or contemplating leaving entirely. Sometimes, leaving is the best choice, but before making that decision, it’s worth...
9 Reasons My Partner and I (Almost) Never Argue
Here are 9 ways my husband and I mitigate conflicts in our relationship.
Learn Emotional Alchemy: Embracing Esoteric Wisdom for Inner Transformation
In my own quest for personal growth and self-discovery, I eventually turned to esoteric wisdom to gain a deeper understanding of myself and the world around me. The teachings of the 7 Hermetic Principles, as described in the book, "The Kybalion," provide a profound...
Criticism, An Unconscious Love Language
"You are such a brat!" "Why can't you be more like your brother?" "Have you put on weight? I think you can skip dessert tonight." If reading any of the cringe-worthy statements above brings up an image of one or both of your parental figures, chances are you were...
This Skill Will Surely Improve Your Dating Life
Someone once told me about the power of doing a simple self check in with yourself while on a date to reflect on how you think it is going. Well let's just say it has been a game changer for me not just in dating, but in all areas of my life. Checking in with yourself...
The Difference Between Dating Consciously and Regular Old Dating
When I began my journey of dating consciously, it was like a breath of fresh air and it opened me up to a whole world of self discovery, positive growth, and forming meaningful connections. Dating can seem like a daunting process to begin with, causing many people to...
3 Ways You Could Subconsciously Be Sabotaging Your Relationship
It is much easier to be the one in the relationship pointing out faults than to be the person owning their own faults. Oftentimes, this turns into a battle of the egos with pride being the protector. A victim mindset will always look for ways to rationalize why the...
How to Raise Your Standards and Set Healthy Boundaries
Let's say life isn't going the way you hoped it would... You hate your job, spending time with your friends makes you feel worse about yourself, your partner doesn't respect you, etc. A lot of things can feel out of our control but when our life seems to be falling...